Tomorrow


Tomorrow the US will have a new president.

A new president who respects no one, except his own arrogant self. 

A new president who has proven to be unfit to be the leader of this great nation. 

Tomorrow will be a sad day for many of us. 

But I have learned not to pay too much attention to the obvious derogatory character that this person has shown.

I rather spend more time and energy focusing on what the rest of us Americans can do to better ourselves. 

Like our former First Lady said: “When they go low, we go high!”

So let us do just that. 

Let us stand up and continue our fight to defend liberty and freedom.  

Tomorrow could be perceived as the first day in our new fight.

Tomorrow we can start fighting to defend immigrants , who are a big part of this nation’s growing economy. 

Tomorrow we can start supporting for continuous health care coverage for every American. 

Tomorrow we can start emphasizing on the importance of maintaining good relationship with the rest of the world.

Tomorrow we will have an opportunity to show each other the greatness of equality, alternative source of energy, and education on mental health services as a tool to lower gun violence. 

Tomorrow will be a day when we can continue to lift our faces and admire the beauty of our diversity, the awesomeness of respecting each other belief system, and the greatness of free speech. 

Tomorrow will be our opportunity . 

Tomorrow and many years to come. 

We can do this. It is our responsibility. 

Yes, tomorrow will be the day to show to the world how great America is.  

What we are teaching our children

No matter if you insult and sexually assault people , you can still be elected president of the US.

No matter if you intimidate others , discriminate ,and cause division , people can still vote for you and become president of the US.

No matter if you discriminate and act arrogant, and have a grandiose complex, you can still be president of the US.

No matter if you make fun of disabled people, you still can make history and become president of the US.

All you have to do is act as if money is the most important thing to be somebody and be well  respected.  

Just be arrogant, self centered, and grandiose and people will want you to be their leader.   

This country has shown to the rest of the world that what we value the most are the things we once discouraged in our homes, school, and churches . But this country has made a big turn . 

 Because this country we call “America” has chosen a bullying billionaire who exhibits all these characteristics, and has become the next president of the US. 

Dear Trump Supporter… 


For all of the Trump supporters out there: Where in your heart do you find the strength and the integrity to continue to support a billionaire who will continue to insult and disrespect minorities, disabled people, and other Americans ?
Why do you continue to support someone who does not apologize for the mistakes that he obviously makes? Someone who most parents would not want their children to listen to while he insults other people? I’m truly sorry if you support someone simply because they are the only one who officially represents your political party. Someone who you think shares your values and, if he really does, then you have some serious value issues. 

Please answer my question, why do you continue to support this bully?

 I have a brother who is disabled; I don’t want the next president to mock people like my brother. I know friends who are veterans and I don’t want the next president to disrespect them simply because of their heritage. I have a wife, a daughter and a mother… I don’t want the next president to be someone who has called women pigs.  

So I ask myself, why would you? No matter how much he claims to be a conservative, to represent the values of your party, this man does not deserve our vote. If we’re going to continue to be an honorable nation , proud of our heritage , and proud of the way that we welcome immigrants and others and try to reach out for common ground, we need to take a serious look at this individual. If you are not appalled and outraged by the numerous statements of this candidate , you are not paying attention or you simply don’t care. 

We should not have someone like Trump misrepresent us and be our next president. We should not support someone who belongs to the 1% and is out of touch with the majority of us who struggle to make a living. Like our current president said, if people from his own party keep saying , on a daily basis, that what Trump says is unacceptable, why continue to endorse him? Don’t you have the character and integrity to say “enough”? We should not support this opportunist and arrogant individual. 

But why do you?

Life lessons (so far)

In my forty two years of existence I have  learned to live one day at a time.  I have reached a moment of existential crisis where I have started to question the basic belief system I have taken for granted.  These are the lessons I have learned (so far) in this existence we call life:

Be yourself (without trying to please others )

Be compassionate

I came alone in this world so I’ll be leaving on my own as well

I don’t owe anybody anything

I dont own anything , not even the body I find myself in.

The self may not even exist or be real

Be patient

Technology is mostly a misused instrument

I don’t have to explain anything to anyone if I don’t want to

Religion is a hoax (So is politics )

Detaching myself from thoughts and beliefs  that trigger old feelings of fear and sadness is the key to peace and joy.

It’s basically all in me head.

We love life mostly by identifying with the fabricated ego.

We hate death mostly because it is the path to the unknown (and its inevitable)

Identifying with a false entity, either an upsetting memory of past event (abusive past), a particular ethnic group, a disease or illness, political view, a belief system, an organization, or a fashion (just to name a few)  is what determines most of our personality and attitude (ego)  and, therefore, our behaviors.

This false identify can be changed with practice.

I will keep you posted on any other lessons on life.. thanks for reading .  

The bell 

Have you ever noticed that we become weak but wiser when we get older? Everyone’s life can be illustrated with a bell shaped line (like in statistics’ bell curve).  We all are born being weak, frail, naked, cold, and confused.  We are also dependent on others’ total care and protection.  If we are not well taken care of, we can fall and injure ourselves easily.

We are also under the same condition when we’re are close to death in our advanced age.  During our last days we are also weak, frail, naked, cold, and confused.  But during the rest of our lives, in the middle part of the bell, we learn more, develop, become stronger , more intelligent, and faster.  Our lives become more enthusiastic and adventurous.  We tend to feel more successful and busy.  This can be experienced by reaching the highest point in our professional career, buying a new house or car,  traveling around the world, having the maximum number of friends, and manifesting our artistic or  musical talents to the maximum.

  But after this high point in our lives, we start to get tired, slower, and limited. Our health begins to deteriorate, our strengths are not so great  and our goals are no longer as important. We slowly begin to deteriorate and lose interest in certain parts of our lives that we once were so obsessed with. We also begin to see loved ones deteriorate and die around us.  We may develop other interests that are less ambitious.  We start to get “older.” 

And this is when we reach the point that we once began at.  Our lowest point as far as strengths and abilities .  But at the same time , this return to our “lowest points” is also the return to our selves .  The return to our natural beings.  The return to the real nature of our existence. We are no longer fixated on our ambitions, our dreams, and our goals.  We are no longer lost in our thoughts and fantasies about what we should do and who we should become.  We simply face the stage in life where we have to accept who we really are.

 We begin to be forced to deny our egos and accept our true selves . Some of us receive this stage in life with appreciation and joy.  Others receive it with regrets and desperation. But we all receive it eventually. 

It is almost like returning to dust… 

Returning to nature.