Dear Trump supporter…

I have been wondering, what is the reason why you continue to support the man in the White House, in spite of all the damage that he has done? Why do you insist that he should continue to be our President, in spite of all of his controversial issues?

The White House.

With all due respect, don’t you realize that he has created more division and chaos? I am honestly asking because I truly want to understand your point of view. It seems to me like we live in different realities. As if I was seeing the obvious outrageous and self-serving acts, and you are seeing a totally different person in him. Are we seeing the same thing ? How can we see two different interpretations of the same behavior? And please don’t blame the media, because his actions are very clear no matter which news media reports it.

There seems to always be some kind of excuse for this man’s irresponsible acts. Namely, his most recent admission that he downplayed the severity of the Covid pandemic, knowing that it was more severe and dangerous than the flu. He mislead the American people. As a result, thousands of lives were lost which could have been prevented if he was truthful about the virus. And why did he clash so much with the scientists?

What about his questionable involvement with the dictator of North Korea and the president of Russia? And then he turns away from NATO and the European Union. What about the numerous insults against women, including being sexually inappropriate with them. His obvious racist comments about Muslims, Mexicans, and black people. The mocking of a disabled reporter, and claiming he can shoot someone and still maintain voters (which seems to be true, sadly), and his condoning of violence during rallies, minimizing the violent acts of white supremacy, his insulting behavior to the Puerto Rican community after hurricane Maria, and the list goes on and on. What is your reasoning for all of this mentioned above?

There are also numerous Republicans who have openly spoken against this president and do not support his re-election , including Mitt Romney, John Kasich, Stuart Stevens, Cindy McCain, Jeb Bush, Collin Powell, Carly Fiorina, and the list goes on and on. Not to mention the organizations such as Republican Voters Against Trump (RVAT) and the Lincoln Project. Would you say that these people and organizations are traitors? Or could they be practicing integrity and are standing up for what is truly a conservative and a free America?

And why do members of his administration keep being replaced ? Even members of his own family publish books denouncing this person and describing him as immoral and not fit to be president. Why is that?

And wasn’t Mexico paying for the wall? Who’s paying for it now? Wasn’t there supposed to be a new Healthcare plan that would replace Obamacare? Was is the Republican platform now?

And why are most Evangelical Christians praising this obvious immoral man? Do you really think this man reflects what Jesus taught ? Blessed are the poor in spirit, peacemakers, and the pure in heart. Does the president belong in this category? Would you say he loves God more than his own money? Does he even go to church?

After all, we are all Americans and we should be able to have a commander in chief who can respect and reflect what America is really about. Someone who truly represents freedom, democracy, inclusivity, conservatism, and respect. I wish we can make America united again.

Please, if you are going to comment and respond, do it in a respectful and civil manner. As peaceful as you can be. Because I don’t mean any disrespect to anyone. I just simply wish to understand.

Thank you, and be safe.

Another Loss…

My step Dad just passed away. He was 97 years old. He tested positive for Covid 19 before he died. My mom sounds ok although she is sad about her loss. I wasn’t very close to him, but he was a great companion to my mom. They married 20 years ago, a few months after I was married. Mom had a rough time with her first marriage. But she found this other man who shared so much more with her.

They prayed and went to church together. They rarely had a serious fight. He was a humble man who loved God and his family very much.

But most significant for me is the fact that my step Dad accepted having my brother, who suffers from cerebral palsy, live with them. My mom has always been very protective of my brother and wanted to continue to take care of him while she could. And her husband was kind enough to allow it to happen.

Because of that, and because he loved my mom very much, I thank God for my step Dad.

My mom visiting my step-dad at the hospice place. She had to see him through a window because of Covid.

The irony of the pandemic

Farm companies giving away food.

People contacting each other more. Family spending more time together.

Wild Animals are seen roaming more freely.

Less air and water pollution. Fish can be seen more clearly and mountains are more visible.

People being more aware of the needs of others and the importance of essential workers.

More people are returning to their hobbies and developing new skills.

We are learning to appreciate nature and silence more.

We are all reminded that life is fragile and we need to live it slowly, with care and compassion.

We are more conscious about our hygiene.

Streets are safer and people are learning to be patient with grocery lines.

We are entering a new era in our evolutionary human history. Future generations will hopefully learn from us.

Masks

We’re entering a new generation where wearing a mask will become the norm. I think they will even become part of the fashion lifestyle. They will probably come in different shapes, colors, and styles as part of our common daily dress code. Probably will be as common as wearing sunglasses or makeup on your face.

Gloves will also be part of our daily lives. They too may come in different shapes, colors, and styles. And they will not be wore only during cold weather. 

We will be living a society where there will be a high demand on masks. They may also come to include goggles to cover our eyes as well. Hats and special protective clothing can also become a new demand.

It may also be required by law to wear masks in public and people may be fined if they do not comply. Coughing and sneezing in public without covering our mouths will become illegal. Shaking hands and hugging will also be forbidden. There may be a new law to limit social gatherings to a limited number of people. It will seem like a totalitarian society.

Even if the pandemic is mostly over , we as a species have been traumatized and marked so deeply by this global crisis, that our human lives will never be same. Even our language will begin to change.

And wearing masks everyday will be our new norm. What do you think?

Uncertainty is the New Normal

Let us stop for a moment and ponder on this. Because we are all living a new reality.

Literally the whole world is on stand by. I continue to wish that this is a bad dream, but I haven’t woken up from it yet.

I have a full time job, but I haven’t seen my office half of the time. I work in a team setting, but I have only seen three coworkers at a time and from a distance.

I wash my hands for 20 seconds, and I still use hand sanitizer right after that. Try not to touch the door handles, and use wipes where ever I go.

I have friends and families, but I don’t see them in person. I cannot even get close to my mom to give her a kiss, because it may make her ill.

Streets are empty, and grocery stores have lines of people outside. It reminds me of pictures of a totalitarian society and a socialist government.

Masks and gloves are becoming a daily necessity. Toilet paper and sanitizers are almost like gold.

The news are full of negative reports about positive results. Death toll rises while congregations decrease.

We use Netflix and Hulu instead of going to the theatre. Social distancing is what dominates our daily lives.

It seems that this has no end. It appears as if we are trying to fight a losing battle against an invisible enemy.

This makes hurricane seasons more bearable. Earthquakes and wild fires are familiarities to us.

But this is different. And more scary.

Nobody knows how long this will last. There is a heavy sense of uncertainty that shatters our lives.

Will we ever go back to normal? We don’t know what normal is anymore.

The only thing normal now is the uncertainty itself.

What can we learn from this chaos?

So this is a follow up from the previous post. Today the answer to the question I was asking in my last post is that, No, we are not overreacting to the Coronavirus global situation. We might actually be under reacting . It is obvious and there is no question that the human race is currently experiencing a world wide epidemic.

Watching the news is more anxiety provoking than anything else. I have watched a lot of end of times and apocalyptic movies, but now I am actually experiencing these catastrophic events in real life. Sometimes I wish I am living a bad dream, but I haven’t woken up yet.

Schools are suspended until further notice , theme parks are closed, libraries are closed, beaches and parks are empty, and stores are running out of products. Not even the hurricane season tops this. September 11 did not affect airline companies as much as the Coronavirus. The news talk about this dangerous virus all the time. It seems that they don’t talk about anything else happening in the world.

Scientists are still studying this virus. There is no vaccine yet. Death toll keeps rising. What should we do then? Panic? Not really, but certainly keep ourselves isolated as much as possible. Use social media more and don’t visit the elderly. Do more online shopping and watch more Netflix at home.

This might be an opportunity to get closer to the loved ones we live with and give each other support. It is our chance to simplify our lives and do some self reflection. This might be the beginning of a new era where human beings can reflect more about the fragility of life and how important it is to live in the present moment. It is ironic that we may continue to interact more with each other through the use of technology. But it is also a blessing so that we can maintain contact without risking contracting the disease.

So go ahead, spend more time with your children, spouse , and loved ones at home. Interact with others away from you through virtual technology. Read more books, watch more movies, and engage in other simple hobbies. We might learn something new and beautiful from each other in the midst of the chaos.

Are we overreacting to the Coronavirus ?

I am truly concerned about this outbreak called CoVid19, or Coronavirus . As we all know , it started in China last December, and it spread to other countries, including South Korea, Italy, and now the United States. It has become an increasing concern to most of us. My wife keeps buying materials and food in case stores run out of products. People are buying masks and hand sanitizers all over the place. Others are watching the news constantly about how fast it is spreading. Schools are closing and Universities are doing more online courses. Coronavirus has killed around 20 people or more in the US. It started in Seattle, and now there are cases in Florida. Even Puerto Rico is starting to monitor people who are becoming sick.

But, are we overreacting ? I wonder how much of this is just the media and the internet making a bigger deal that it really is.

Some people compare it to the flu. Thousands of people die from the flu each year. Why worry so much about the Coronavirus? It is a new virus , which means that our bodies have not been immune to it yet. There is no vaccine to fight it yet.

But I get the feeling that this could be a massive case of hysteria and panic, more than a true global medical problem. It has recently been declared a pandemic which means the whole world is officially being affected.

Should we be worried? We certainly have to be prepared and take precautions , such as washing our hands for 20 seconds and not touching our faces. Should we avoid public places? Not go to work or school?

How serious should we really take this?

Illness should be Banned

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Illness should be Banned. 

Having a medical condition

Is almost like having a life sentence.

Receiving medical care 

can cost more than the illness itself.

Free medical care is banned.

Believing that healthcare is a right  is banned

Taking alternative medicine is unpopular. 

Delaying paying for medical bills is banned .

Ignoring medical advice is also unadvisable .

Disputing medical bills is troublesome.

Is costs more illness to pay for these medical bills

Than the original illness itself.

Can’t afford to get sick again. 

It’s a lifelong bondage that won’t go away. 

Therefore ,

Illness should also be banned.. 

Anxiety attacks again…

So I was having a “normal” day at work today, when I started feeling lightheaded. It was kind of mild at the beginning,.. so what I have been doing is trying to ignore it by distracting myself with work and other activities.

But today it was a challenge. I felt I almost fainted while seeing a client. I do counseling, and I felt I needed the counseling at that moment. The lightheadedness was so intense that I started to have tunnel vision. My hands started sweating , and my mouth was dry.

A few months ago doctors never found what was wrong with my heart, if anything. My thyroid is fine and my sugar level is also normal. I have no GI problems either. So I’m still stuck with assuming it’s just anxiety or a more serious condition that has not been detected yet. Still taking anxiety medication on a daily basis, and I’m mot sure if it’s doing anything at all. I did have side effects of the medication at the beginning.

There was no reason to be anxious about anything in particular. And it lasted until I got home from work.. But first I had to pick up my son from a baseball game and that took forever to get to him and back home.. I thought I wasn’t going to make it but I did. I felt better when I got home. I keep wondering if this is just anxiety or if it’s something more serious. I keep thinking of all the previous episodes that I have had these and keep remembering them in detail in my head.

I will continue to do what I can including meditation, exercise and mindful activities. I guess I will continue to take my medications as well. Or maybe start trying CBD oil. Don’t know..

To be continued ….